I'm not your inspiration, thank you very much | Stella Young | eJOY English
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I grew up in a very small country town
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in Victoria.
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I had a very normal, low-key kind of upbringing.
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I went to school, I hung out with my friends,
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I fought with my younger sisters.
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It was all very normal.
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And when I was 15, a member of my local community
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approached my parents
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and wanted to nominate me
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for a community achievement award.
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And my parents said, "Hm, that's really nice,
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but there's kind of one glaring problem with that.
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She hasn't actually achieved anything." (Laughter)
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And they were right, you know.
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I went to school, I got good marks,
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I had a very low-key after school job
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in my mum's hairdressing salon,
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and I spent a lot of time watching
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"Buffy the Vampire Slayer" and "Dawson's Creek."
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Yeah, I know. What a contradiction.
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But they were right, you know.
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I wasn't doing anything that was out of the ordinary
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at all.
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I wasn't doing anything that could be considered an achievement
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if you took disability out of the equation.
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Years later, I was on my second teaching round
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in a Melbourne high school,
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and I was about 20 minutes into a year 11 legal studies class
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when this boy put up his hand and said,
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"Hey miss, when are you going to start doing your speech?"
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And I said, "What speech?"
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You know, I'd been talking them
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about defamation law for a good 20 minutes.
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And he said, "You know, like,
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your motivational speaking.
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You know, when people in wheelchairs come to school,
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they usually say, like, inspirational stuff?"
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(Laughter)
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"It's usually in the big hall."
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And that's when it dawned on me:
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This kid had only ever experienced disabled people
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as objects of inspiration.
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We are not, to this kid --
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and it's not his fault, I mean,
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that's true for many of us.
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For lots of us, disabled people are not our teachers
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or our doctors or our manicurists.
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We're not real people. We are there to inspire.
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And in fact, I am sitting on this stage
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looking like I do in this wheelchair,
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and you are probably kind of expecting me
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to inspire you. Right? (Laughter)
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Yeah.
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Well, ladies and gentlemen, I'm afraid
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I'm going to disappoint you dramatically.
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I am not here to inspire you.
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I am here to tell you that we have been lied to
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about disability.
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Yeah, we've been sold the lie
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that disability is a Bad Thing, capital B, capital T.
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It's a bad thing, and to live with a disability
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makes you exceptional.
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It's not a bad thing, and it doesn't
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make you exceptional.
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And in the past few years, we've been able
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to propagate this lie even further
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via social media.
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You may have seen images like this one:
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"The only disability in life is a bad attitude."
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Or this one: "Your excuse is invalid." Indeed.
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Or this one: "Before you quit, try!"
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These are just a couple of examples,
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but there are a lot of these images out there.
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You know, you might have seen the one,
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the little girl with no hands
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drawing a picture with a pencil held in her mouth.
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You might have seen a child running
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on carbon fiber prosthetic legs.
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And these images,
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there are lots of them out there,
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they are what we call inspiration porn.
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(Laughter)
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And I use the term porn deliberately,
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because they objectify one group of people
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for the benefit of another group of people.
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So in this case, we're objectifying disabled people
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for the benefit of nondisabled people.
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The purpose of these images
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is to inspire you, to motivate you,
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so that we can look at them
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and think, "Well, however bad my life is,
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it could be worse.
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I could be that person."
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But what if you are that person?
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I've lost count of the number of times that I've
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been approached by strangers
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wanting to tell me that they think I'm brave
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or inspirational,
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and this was long before my work
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had any kind of public profile.
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They were just kind of congratulating me
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for managing to get up in the morning
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and remember my own name. (Laughter)
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And it is objectifying.
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These images, those images
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objectify disabled people
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for the benefit of nondisabled people.
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They are there so that you can look at them
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and think that things aren't so bad for you,
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to put your worries into perspective.
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And life as a disabled person
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is actually somewhat difficult.
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We do overcome some things.
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But the things that we're overcoming
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are not the things that you think they are.
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They are not things to do with our bodies.
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I use the term "disabled people" quite deliberately,
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because I subscribe to what's called the social model of disability,
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which tells us that we are more disabled
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by the society that we live in
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than by our bodies and our diagnoses.
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So I have lived in this body a long time.
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I'm quite fond of it.
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It does the things that I need it to do,
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and I've learned to use it to the best of its capacity
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just as you have,
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and that's the thing about those kids in those pictures as well.
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They're not doing anything out of the ordinary.
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They are just using their bodies
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to the best of their capacity.
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So is it really fair to objectify them
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in the way that we do,
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to share those images?
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People, when they say, "You're an inspiration,"
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they mean it as a compliment.
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And I know why it happens.
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It's because of the lie, it's because we've been sold
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this lie that disability makes you exceptional.
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And it honestly doesn't.
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And I know what you're thinking.
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You know, I'm up here bagging out inspiration,
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and you're thinking, "Jeez, Stella,
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aren't you inspired sometimes by some things?"
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And the thing is, I am.
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I learn from other disabled people all the time.
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I'm learning not that I am luckier than them, though.
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I am learning that it's a genius idea
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to use a pair of barbecue tongs
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to pick up things that you dropped. (Laughter)
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I'm learning that nifty trick where you can charge
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your mobile phone battery from your chair battery.
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Genius.
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We are learning from each others' strength and endurance,
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not against our bodies and our diagnoses,
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but against a world that exceptionalizes
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and objectifies us.
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I really think that this lie that we've been sold
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about disability is the greatest injustice.
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It makes life hard for us.
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And that quote, "The only disability in life
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is a bad attitude,"
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the reason that that's bullshit
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is because it's just not true,
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because of the social model of disability.
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No amount of smiling at a flight of stairs
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has ever made it turn into a ramp.
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Never. (Laughter) (Applause)
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Smiling at a television screen
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isn't going to make closed captions appear
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for people who are deaf.
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No amount of standing in the middle of a bookshop
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and radiating a positive attitude
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is going to turn all those books into braille.
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It's just not going to happen.
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I really want to live in a world
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where disability is not the exception, but the norm.
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I want to live in a world where a 15-year-old girl
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sitting in her bedroom
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watching "Buffy the Vampire Slayer"
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isn't referred to as achieving anything
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because she's doing it sitting down.
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I want to live in a world
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where we don't have such low expectations
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of disabled people
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that we are congratulated for getting out of bed
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and remembering our own names in the morning.
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I want to live in a world where we value genuine achievement
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for disabled people,
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and I want to live in a world
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where a kid in year 11 in a Melbourne high school
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is not one bit surprised
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that his new teacher is a wheelchair user.
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Disability doesn't make you exceptional,
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but questioning what you think you know about it does.
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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In this very funny talk, Stella Young breaks down society's habit of turning disabled people into "inspiration porn."
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